This sympathetic interview comes from a website maintained by Randy Thomas, an official of the "ex-gay" Exodus International, which published it on April 9th. Though Thomas claimed it was a transcript of a voice interview conducted via Google Talk, there is no voice file to go with it.
Scroll through this interview to boldfaced sections where Sanchez defends Ann Coulter's "faggot" comment at a conservative conference; claims that the Marine Corps knew about his gay videos before be enlisted; praises the Don't Ask/Don't Tell policy and the military's exclusion of open homosexuals; contradicts his prior claims of having had two fiancees and one wife; denies prostitution and misrepresents the statements he made on two Alan Colmes shows.
THOMAS: I first heard of you when you were "outed" by the gay blogs for having done gay porn 15 years ago. However, you were in their "line of fire" because you won an award at CPAC. Could you explain the award and why you were given it?
SANCHEZ: It was an award for Academic Freedom. Ambassador Kirkpatrick died last year and it was decided that to honor her death an award on Academic freedom would be presented. The award is meant to honor someone who has stood out and made a difference in academia I was nominated and given the award because of my activism on behalf of veterans on American campuses.
THOMAS: Could you tell me more about how your "activism" is accomplished on campuses across the country? Do you do speaking engagements? Challenge campus administration? recruit others?
SANCHEZ: I filed a complaint regarding a group of socialists at Columbia. Long story short, the university decided to change their policy on the recognition of veterans. That in turn has received a lot of other groups of veterans to do the same on their campuses and we get feedback from people who insist that much of the same double-standard problems from both anti-military groups and the administration have taken place on their campuses Today, I keep working to get veterans more recognition by the administration
1. Getting more vets to attend Ivy League schools
2. Honor Veterans who have fallen, such as in the accepted proposal of a Columbia Veteran's war memorial for all the fallen since the French Indian War
3. Recognize Marine and Columbia benefactor Alfred Lerner
4. Get a veteran's affair administrator on campus until now there hasn't been one
5. Get the university to offer their aid on veteran's projects. Currently there's an ongoing collaboration between Columbia and a veteran's museum in Harlem
THOMAS: That's wonderful. Thank you for explaining that further... Another reason you were in the line of fire for the gay activists is because you have been on conservative shows like Sean Hannity and have had pictures taken with Ann Coulter and mega blogger Michelle Malkin. How well do you know these high profile people and what is or has been your relationship with them?
SANCHEZ: They've been very nice. I've met them personally and they have been very supportive since we generally agree that elite campuses are some of the biggest snobs in their treatment of veterans as well as the biggest opponents of military action or even a military presence. I've had my articles posted on all of their sites and have been mentioned by them several times Do we all hang out together? Not quite, but they've been very helpful in getting the anti-military at elite colleges out to the public
THOMAS: Great. So ... another controversy at CPAC was Ann's use of the word "faggot." Since you were right there ... what is your opinion of her using that word?
SANCHEZ: I believe in free speech. It was a racy thing to say but it was an effective joke. Since then, I've been called faggot by the people who complained Ann was a homophobe for saying the word. So, the righteous indignation or irony of it all isn't lost on me … it was a tempest in a teapot brewed up by a disgruntled group of people who are very sensitive about what others think of them and will do all they can to "silence" anyone who doesn't march in lockstep with them. Personally, I wouldn't have said the term "Faggot" in public discourse.
THOMAS: Some have said something to the same affect that she used the situation to create the tempest in the first place ... are you saying that the response of those angered by it is hypocritical?
SANCHEZ: Absolutely. Like I said, the group complaining obviously does not have a problem with the word faggot. The word to me is a bit childish, but that's just my opinion
THOMAS: Great, I would agree, the use of derogatory words is childish and something she didn't have to resort too. … with regard to the underlying situation that fueled all of this and that has been indirectly referred to so far is the fact that you are a Marine. How long have you been a Marine? Why did you decide to join the Marines?
SANCHEZ: It's definitely childish, but she was actually referring to the TV actor who went to re-hab for his anti-gay slurs. … 2003 is when I joined. I joined after 9/11 and I joined because I wanted to serve no magic or mysticism to it, I just thought I should do something so I did.
THOMAS: Why the Marines though? Why not another military branch?
SANCHEZ: Marines are the toughest I knew next to nothing about the military, but I knew the Marines were "first to fight" and I thought I'd get the biggest challenge from the mentally. It's true, by the way. They give the worse in terms of benefits for school they give the least in terms of bonus pay they really are bare-boned but they offer the most in terms of honor courage and commitment. Joining the Marines was a bit like a religious experience.
THOMAS: Really? Wow... now that is a statement ... how so?
SANCHEZ: Several ways it's very much based on the trial by fire method, almost like a 12 step program you're asked during the "moment of truth" to fess up to everything you may have done. You're constantly placed under enormous pressure and often your only way of being "saved" is turning toward the Marine method. Honor, Courage, and Commitment are the 3 commandments. There's a lot of leeway, but if you follow those tenets, you're generally ok.
THOMAS: Ok... that makes a lot of sense. Now, I am not a reporter but I can't possibly pass this up :) ... in your "moment of truth" what did you fess up to? :)
SANCHEZ: Nothing. I had already confessed everything up with my recruiter. He saw the pictures, someone sent them to him anonymously and he asked if I was a homosexual. I said no. Most people fess up to drugs and some kind of delinquent behavior. It's a great "come to the altar" moment they do that sort of thing a lot.
THOMAS: What do you mean by "come to the altar" ... some of my readers may not understand that metaphor and I want to make sure I am tracking with you ...
SANCHEZ: It's when you're told you can stand out from the crowd by performing, confessing, or just taking a stand and coming forward and publicly making a statement. It's sort of evangelical. You're put on public display and made an example of for better or for worse.
THOMAS: ... So, in light of Don't Ask Don't Tell, the recruiter did ask and you said no ... and that was the end of that? What is your current status and what do you think of DADT?
SANCHEZ: Current status is as a reservist. I think DADT does the job. We can't have sexuality especially gay sexuality be the defining characteristic among Marines. I'm not for repealing the law Marine Corps is more than what one does in the privacy of his or her home. Activists see it differently, as I'm sure you know.
THOMAS: Yes, I do know. Could you explain how gay sexuality would affect the Marine Corps? Why is that something you think (and I personally agree) should not be a defining characteristic of the Marine Corps?
SANCHEZ: The Marine Corps just passed a ruling on excessive tattooing because it was generally becoming disruptive by putting the individualism of body art ahead of the Marine Corps duties. By that same token, the "I'm here, I'm queer" mindset is a self-indulgent ideology that clashes with the "The Few the Proud" mentality of self-sacrifice and team work. On another level, sex and sexual action is a huge issue in the Marine Corps even with female Marines and their interaction with male Marines. You simply can't overlook sex in the military it breaks down the command structure and damages authority in ways that have no parallel in civilian society.
The needs of the Marine Corps are inherently different than the needs for the student body of a college campus. So, the gay movement or black power movement or Latino pride movement are counter-intuitive to the mindset of the Corps. There are no "Latino Marines, or Black Marines or Chinese Marines, there are just Marines. In that way, they're not different from Christians who have a non-segregation "We are all God's children" approach to their fellow Christians
THOMAS: Given the recent hullabaloo... is your status as a Marine in jeopardy? Explain.
SANCHEZ: There's an investigation going on and I'm cooperating fully. It's preliminary, but I've responded vigorously to everything. I will aggressively defend myself. That is how Marines are taught and I'm sure they expect as much.
THOMAS: How do you respond to those who believe that you should be discharged from the Marines for being "gay" even though you say that you are not? After this question I only have one more along these lines and we can move on to the sexuality angle.
SANCHEZ: The queer thing about those who believe I should be discharged for "being gay" is that they tend to be gay themselves. It's very indicative of the self-loathing of the gay fundamentalists who eat their own and will pretty much say, do or speak anything because they have no sense of intrinsic values, universal truths, or no greater understand of the world beyond themselves.
THOMAS: you sound like you have had a difficult time with "gay fundamentalists." Would you please compare/contrast the gay activist and conservative response to your situation?
SANCHEZ: activists want my head gay conservatives and conservatives in general think it's a non-issue and are much more concerned with who I am today. There's a huge ideological difference as well. The difference between who can change and whether one is simply born into a situation and unable to get out of it. Gay fundamentalist are original sinners, they're very frustrated because they truly feel they were 'born that way" and have no choice. These are the people who love to tell me I was in those films therefore I am "damned for life" they also feel their sexuality makes them "marked men" or people who are eternally on the fringe and that there's no need to do anything but "accept" oneself anything else would be self-loathing
THOMAS: How does that compare to conservative ideology?
SANCHEZ: Conservatives feel there are intrinsic values, universal truths and that humans--who are inherently flawed--can move toward those values there's a fundamental divide between the two. Conservatives believe the truths are external and we as humans, people, souls can move closer and farther to these truths and that proximity, if you will, is what defines us. The liberal/gay fundamentalist side says that the individual is "that truth" and that he/she needs to just accept who one is. In other words, they as individuals are the sum of all things. They are the society, nation and religion of one … that one being the individual. They are subordinate to no one.
THOMAS: What is your sexual orientation? … Identity?
SANCHEZ: flawed historically, it has been me-centered so, I have lived like a hermit dating no one although I have had several girl-friends. I was never really interested in setting up house, probably because I felt that I wasn't worthy of it. Or maybe because I thought I wasn't mature enough for it. The straight answer is Straight and not gay
THOMAS: thanks for both the around the way answer and the "straight" answer ... so, why did you get involved in gay porn 15 years ago?
SANCHEZ: Narcissim, self-absorption, self-hatred, indifference, depravity, protest, big on protest back then … @##$% society mindset.
THOMAS: what were you protesting?
SANCHEZ: lack of satisfaction, my lack of spirituality, my religious upbringing, frustrations, the 'unfairness of it all" pretty much everything we all protest except for that I was a lot more bold or stupid or depraved in my protests or even indifferent.
THOMAS: It sounds like a very sad place to be in life ... how were you "recruited" into gay porn?... or did you go looking for ways to participate?
SANCHEZ: I met one of the directors and that's where it started. It was a bit like a cult
THOMAS: There is a quote on your site that I will insert here about the affects of being porn on you. Could you elaborate on what you thought you were getting involved in and what actually was the result? … being "in" porn
SANCHEZ: but I own up to what happened and what I did. I think one of the ironic things was that I truly felt I was only harming myself and not anyone else hold on. Like I said, I thought I was just getting involved in social suicide but it turns out that I was actually getting involved in a fairly warped life-style, a lifestyle of setting oneself up as a type of idol and then worshiping my own silly fantasy of myself. At the time, it meant "freedom" now I see it meant a type of prison. Freedom from societal restraints. Now, I see it's society that threatens to restrain me for my participation and those images.
THOMAS: How do you respond to those who say that it is impossible for a "straight" man to participate in homosexual sex? That you must be "gay" and in denial ...
SANCHEZ: Those are the marked man ideologues. These are reductionists who feel you are what you do and you are stained for ever. This is the bulk of the gay fundamentalists, the anti-religious, the pro-abortionists constituents these are the people who feel you're "born that way" by that token, child molesters are just born that way, and should be "forgiven" for just doing what comes natural. These people tend to be very hostile to anything above their homemade philosophy of me-as-god.
THOMAS: There were several posts around the blogosphere claiming that you were also a "male escort" ... even as recently as two years ago (I think, I can't remember where I read that) is that true or not?
SANCHEZ: Not true but if you read it on the internet--it must be true. No, listen, it's quite amazing how all this information has come forth so conveniently. I was just reading the Alan Colmes interview and like a fool, I wanted to make a point about sin and about how it was all bad. So, I made these blanket statements about "owning up to all of it.” That's what got the bloggers going to prove a point at all costs including lying. So, let me say it again. Not true.
THOMAS: Thank you for addressing that rumor. This next question is self-indulgent but ... many of my readers would want to know ... what do you think about Exodus and "ex-gays" like myself?
SANCHEZ: I think ex-gays are interesting and I wish they'd take a stronger stand you're being overshadowed by the "I'm here, I'm queer" movement and I think those people are bent on tearing you guys down. I heard a sermon where the minister insisted that Jesus wasn't a wimp, he was someone who was willing to fight, and defend. I'd like to hear more from ex-gays I'd like them to take on the Psychologists and the talking heads and get their experiences out there to the Prozac popping public who simply chalks it up to a "live and let live" ideology but don't seem to realize or care that the gay agenda will affect them too
THOMAS: … I am inspired. Thanks
SANCHEZ: I do want to be truthful, and I feel you have an IMPORTANT voice in the current political/societal debate taking place here and throughout the world you guys need to get aggressive and I want to meet more of you guys and help in any way I can
THOMAS: Thanks! Do you ever hope to be a husband and father? What goals do you currently hold on too. Thank you and I would like to think and pray about how we can get to know each other more and how we can possibly work together.
SANCHEZ: Yes. with this stuff behind me I really do hope to be a father husband and a stronger Christian. I also see that this is a trying time for Christians who are becoming more closeted as gays become more "enfranchised." I believe the tide will turn but I do think it'll get worse before it gets better
THOMAS: Do you believe that "gay rights" is coming at the expense of religious liberty?
SANCHEZ: Of course I do. It won't be long before the Bible is considered hate text. We already see that in universities which tend to be the harbinger of societal shifts. Religious groups are not allowed on campus because they're not 'inclusive', you see this on schools where gay and straight alliances marginalize Christian groups. Only Christian groups, when of course Muslims are far more stringently anti-gay but that come under the "diversity" umbrella the key problem here was allowing secularists to integrate the human being as a pre-packaged "unit" that is already hard-wired. That idea needs to be torn down by people who prove the contrary ex-gays are one of those groups. Women who regret abortion are another and minorities who view themselves as individuals rather than "the other" are another group…
THOMAS: Thank you and I completely agree. We have several projects underway that will address a lot of what you wish to see from ex-gays.
SANCHEZ: Good, keep me up to date and let's get you guys some more publicity and attention. I thought the leader shot himself in the foot on the Montel show, but, oh well, I did the same on Colmes. I think you should go out and do it again and keep going
THOMAS: Matt, I told you before that the reason I contacted you initially was simply to encourage you. I was worried for you because I see you as a very talented, eloquent leader and I was truly upset that the totality of who you are was being reduced to talking points and being exploited by others. This isn't necessarily a question but a statement: I see porn as a pernicious evil because it exploits and distorts men and women individually and as image bearers of God. I am so glad you got out of that industry alive and I am very glad to see your humility and transparency. You have my prayers and if there is anything I can do to be a friend, a good Christian brother ... or fellow blogger don't hesitate to let me know.
SANCHEZ: Thanks for your comments, I agree porn reduces the mind and flattens the soul and I truly believe that. I also believe it's important for people who find a different way and know there is a universal truth speak up.